For caring people who constantly sacrifice their own needs to help others...
You've been at this "trying to love yourself struggle" for quite some time, haven't you?
If we put away our polite social masks for a moment and be real with each other... we can admit that life's been a bit heart-breaking and soul-crushing, hasn't it?
I get it.
Hi, I'm Tree, and I've been there.
So let's start with some radical, loving honesty because I know...
❤️ You're ready for your breakthrough.
❤️ You deeply want to grow.
❤️ You're incredibly strong and can take it.
Ready?
It's not your fault that it's taken so long.
It's not that you're unworthy, undeserving, or can't get it right.
IT'S THAT YOU'VE BEEN GIVEN MISINFORMATION.
MYTH #1: Self-care means self-love
Everyone says that self-love starts within, then they tell you to do external things like:
Take a bubble bath
Get a massage
Treat yourself to a cute new outfit
Take a walk out in nature
FACT: While these actions are nice, they don't get to the core of your wound, the thing INSIDE you that's causing the pain.
MYTH #2: You have to love yourself first before others can love you.
Look at the people you know who have partners that love them. Do they seem to love themselves any more or less than you love yourself?
When my stepdaughter was going through her awkward teenage years, she was constantly judging and criticizing herself, comparing herself to others on social media who seemed perfect, beautiful, and "put together". She didn't love herself, and yet, she was deeply loved by me, her father, mother, family, and friends.
FACT: You are lovable and deeply loved no matter how you feel about yourself.
It Was Designed To:
Dive deep into the subconscious, to the core of your heart wound
Tap into your own divine inner wisdom and guidance
Let you see for yourself what's true and what's not
Empathic and Highly Sensitive People (HSPs):You know you have an unconscious block somewhere, you can sense it because you're intuitive, but you don't know exactly what it is.
Self-Reflective Deep Feelers: No one would know it because you put up a good front, but in your quiet moments of truth, you feel shame, unworthiness, disappointment, and even loathing toward yourself but don't know how to change it.
Perfect If You've Failed Before: You're in for a special awakening if you've been working on loving yourself for a while and haven't experienced a lasting, transformative shift.
Ready to Do The Deep Work: You're tired of feeling this way about yourself, not living the life you know you could be living, and want your breakthrough now.
Release self-doubt.
Stop negative self-talk.
Forgive yourself.
Get clarity on what it means to love yourself and why it’s been so difficult for you.
Treat yourself with the kindness, respect, and honor you truly deserve.
Teach others how to treat you by treating yourself the same way.
Move toward loving yourself with real-life, practical, and actionable steps.
Begin anew, overflowing with the feeling of deep, appreciative love for yourself.
Release old painful wounds so you can feel lighter, freer and more confident within 7 days.
Tree and Stick Girl guide you for 7 days through the action steps - which you can do in the comfort and safety of your own home. Each day's session will take no more than 20 minutes to watch the lesson and take action. You will have full access to the daily recordings at your leisure.
7 videos + 7 short daily action steps = the proven path to self-love.
Once you sign up, you'll have immediate access to all the course materials, videos, worksheets and LoveMap where you can track your progress every day. You can watch all 7 daily videos in one day and have a "self-love binge" if you wish, but we don't recommend it. The inner work you'll be doing is pretty deep, and your body, mind and spirit need time to process.
No two people experience the same suffering or have the same story. Everyone’s journey is different. But, with my highly-effective, personalized methods, you can - AND WILL - move forward from past pain, toxic energy, negative sludge, and emotional baggage.
On Day 1, within 9 minutes: you’ll finally have the answer to exactly why it’s been difficult for you to fully love yourself even though you’ve tried all the self-care practices, followed all the self-love advice and written endless affirmations on your mirror.
On day 2, within 15 minutes: you’ll begin to heal with compassion and awareness as you uncover your deepest heart wounds and parts of yourself that you’ve unconsciously abandoned.
On day 3, within 8 minutes: you’ll learn a powerful ancient technique of forgiveness and reconciliation that works instantly (for yourself and others) to release old toxic emotional energy and let go of past anger, shame and guilt.
And that’s only 3 days in, with a maximum time commitment of 10-20 minutes per day!
Imagine what the next 4 days will bring.
How long have you been journaling, repeating affirmations, reading self-help books and making gratitude lists to try to love yourself more?
I bet decades, right?
Let’s stop wasting time.
You deserve better.
Give me 7 days and I’ll give you a new you.
Repeat daily affirmations
Write a long list of all your good qualities
Practice better self-care
Listen to subliminal messages about your worth
Do little things every day that make you happy
Force yourself to try to feel grateful
Write positive quotes on your bathroom mirror
The 7 Day Challenge That Started It All! A video course guiding you through the proven path to self-love. You'll learn a powerful healing process to help you release old painful wounds so you can feel lighter, freer and more confident within 7 days. Each day takes no longer than 10-20 minutes to watch the training and apply the action step. Includes worksheets, transcripts, audio and video.
Watch this video training to discover 4 simple steps that dramatically shifts your energy from hurt and helplessness to joy and empowerment - WITHIN SECONDS! You'll get insight into what your emotions really are and how to use them (especially the painful ones) to tap into your innate wisdom, how to quickly shift any unwanted emotion, and the true power of your emotional energy.
This report challenges the validity of the number one rule most relationship experts give as a prerequisite to finding your soulmate: loving yourself first before love can come to you. With fact-based data and real-life examples that show why this statement is false, you'll discover new hope, power and understanding of what love really means and why you DON'T have to love yourself first before love can come to you.
The Facebook group is there for the community aspect - to share insights with your fellow deep divers as well as to give and receive support. You don't have to do this alone. For community, accountability and connection, this private Facebook group is only for paid members of the 7 Day Deep Dive to Activate Self-Love.
You may know Dr. Andrea Pennington from her numerous appearances on TV on The Oprah Winfrey Show, Dr. Oz, The Discovery Channel, The Today Show and also her TEDx talks. In this exclusive interview with Tree, recorded during the Soulful Love Summit, she talks about how to overcome the fundamental feeling of being unworthy, her own personal journey of high-functioning depression and anxiety, how she overcame it and how you can too. (A high-functioning depressive is someone who, on the outside appears successful and happy, but on the inside, suffers from a quiet, constant dark depression that no one knows about).
In this candid interview with Tree, recorded during the Soulful Love Summit, Psychologist and best-selling author of Loveable: Embracing What Is Truest About You, So You Can Truly Embrace Your Life, Dr. Kelly Flanagan shares his best practices for loving yourself, silencing the inner critic of shame and noticing when your ego is in control vs your true self. He shows you how to overcome the daily ego battles and power struggles inherent in relationships, talks candidly about his own marriage and answers one of Tree’s deepest fears. If you’ve ever wondered, “What if it’s not just a belief, what if it’s really true that I’m not loveable?” you won’t want to miss this.
The 7 Day Deep Dive to Activate Self-Love Course
($97 Value)
BONUS #1: 4-Step Energy Shift From Painful to Powerful
($97 Value)
BONUS #2: Why Self Love Is Not a Prerequisite to Meeting Your Soulmate
($67 Value)
BONUS #3: Private Facebook Group Access (for additional resources and support)
($97 Value)
BONUS #4: How to Move From Darkness, Anxiety & Self-Loathing to Light, Peace and Self-Love with Dr. Andrea Pennington
($97 Value)
BONUS #5: Feeling Unloved & Unworthy - How to Know & Embrace Your Loveable True Self with Dr. Kelly Flanagan
($97 Value)
Once you sign up, you'll receive an email from us immediately with your login information to access the online hub where the Self Love course and all the bonuses live. You'll have immediate access to all the course materials, bonuses, videos, worksheets and LoveMap where you can track your progress every day. You'll also receive an invitation link to the Facebook Group for additional resources and support.
Imagine how different your life can be if you finally started believing in yourself. You would:
Feel joy radiating from inside you
Walk around with an inner smile
Look in the mirror and feel immense love and appreciation
Take more risks and achieve your dreams
Wake up excited for the day ahead, full of promise
Stand up for yourself and speak out more
Express your needs clearly and kindly
Know exactly what to do to feel better when you feel down
Feel invincible, like you're on top of the world
Repeat daily affirmations (that feel rote and mechanical)
Take bubble baths (until your fingers wrinkle then have to "get back to reality" once it's over)
Buy new clothes (then feel worse because you feel fat in them and have more debt)
Write gratitude lists (and try to feel grateful and then beat yourself up because you don't feel anything)
Meditate on your worthiness (and get mad at yourself because you can't stop thinking about all the things you have to do today)
Write a list of all your good qualities (and come up with three after an hour)
Buy crystals and floral essences that bring out your love of self (then throw them away a month later because you're not using them)
Read yet another self-help book (each time thinking this one will finally solve your problem - but it doesn't)
Take a walk outside (that was nice, now what?)
Get the 7 Day Deep Dive to Activate Self-Love (and finally have the breakthrough you wanted to heal your emotional wounds and fall deeply in love with yourself)
Hi, I’m Tree Franklyn and that’s Stick Girl.
Like you, we’re empathic and feel emotions deeply.
For many of us sensitive souls, our lives have been riddled with struggle, betrayal, loss and heartbreak. Our souls have been crushed. We feel broken, weak, flawed. We care too much, feel too much, love too much. We listen to others, comfort their hurts and tirelessly serve their needs.
Yet, when it comes to turning that love on ourselves, we feel guilty. Undeserving. Selfish. These past few years have brought much of that pain to the surface, revealing parts of us that we’ve ignored for too long.
The good news is that it’s not your fault.
How you’ve reacted to life's events is merely the Universe’s loving mirror reflecting back to you parts of yourself that need compassion, attention and reconciliation.
You just need to become reacquainted with your SELF again. I only know this because I've been there myself.
I created the 7-Day Deep Dive to Activate Self-Love for myself, after my boyfriend of 5 years left me for a woman nearly half my age. I felt like a used rag tossed on the side of the road. Abandoned. Rejected. And ugly. The Deep Dive was a creation of necessity, born out of desperation and a deep yearning to believe in myself again. It saved my life. And that's why I stand so firmly behind the 4-Step Process, I know it works! If it worked for me, it can work for you.
I’m now a bestselling author of the books HeartDiver: A 5-Step Method to Help You Find, Feel and Heal Your Heart's Deepest Wounds and An Empath's Guide to Emotional Survival. I'm also a faculty member at The Shift Network and founder of the Empathic Awakening Academy.
I’ve been featured in ABC, NBC, Huffington Post, Elephant Journal, Mike Dooley’s TUT, Positive Thinking magazine, Inspired Coach magazine, MindBodyGreen, Tiny Buddha, Entrepreneurs on Fire, and many more. I’ve also been featured as a Quiet Revolutionary in Susan Cain’s Quiet Revolution.
Along with my popular whimsical muse, Stick Girl, I teach soul-centered empathic sensitives how to use their emotions to tap into their inner divine guidance so they can create a life of deep meaning and purpose.
Once you sign up, you'll receive an email immediately with a login link to access the course and all the bonuses. You can start watching the videos right away, or start whenever you're ready. You'll have full, lifetime access to all the recordings, worksheets and all other course materials so you can access the deep dive when it’s convenient for you - we understand life is busy and that you have other responsibilities. Since the recordings are yours to keep, you can also redo the deep dive at any given time in the future (highly recommended!). Every time you do, you’ll uncover new, deeper layers that you didn’t before.
As soon as possible, so if you’re thinking of joining, do so now! You’ll have immediate access and can start right away or whenever you’re ready.
Great question! But, our lips are sealed! If we told you, your mind will create stories about how you can’t do it, don’t want to do it, it’s not for you, blah blah blah. But those are all excuses to get out of confronting yourself. So let’s just say, they won’t require hard, physical labor, you won’t need to leave your home to do them, or buy any extras. The action steps require deep internal reflection and a few of them require physical action (i.e. writing down your insights, speaking words out loud, etc.). You will just have to sign up to find out!
Since we introduced the 7 Day Deep Dive to Activate Self Love in 2016 (previously known as the Self Love Challenge), we have had only one request for a refund and that was after the second day, which has an emotionally difficult action step for many. Some people experience massive breakthroughs with this while others gain a “quieter mind” or “more loving and nurturing relationship” with themselves. No matter what the range of healing, everyone who has completed the tasks for the entire 7 days has gained something well beyond the low price of the program. But, if for any reason, you aren't bouncing off the walls in love with yourself after the 7 days, we offer a 30-day full money-back guarantee. If you’re not satisfied, we’ll refund your money back 100%.
The series lasts only 7 days and the daily actions (including watching the video lesson) take between 10-20 minutes. We’ve kept these lessons short but impactful because we know a lot of people have young children and family members at home quite often these days.
We haven't met but we can tell you with absolutely 100% certainty - YOU ARE NOT A LOST CAUSE. Not even "kind of". And we can also say with absolute certainty that you haven't tried it all - because if you HAD tried it all, like our 7 Day Deep Dive to Activate Self Love, you wouldn't be reading this page right now, you'd be out on the grassy hills singing the theme song to The Sound of Music. ;) We know it's been difficult with all the misinformation and partial information out there, and unfortunately, we've all wasted too much time following techniques or methods that ended up not working for us. We get it, we've been there too. This course is designed to go very deep, very fast, and you'll experience some breakthroughs quickly. We urge you to give it a try and see for yourself why you're not a lost cause. If you don't experience the breakthroughs you needed, we'll refund your money back 100%.
We understand that not everyone uses Facebook for various reasons. The Facebook group is there for the community aspect including additional resources and support, however, it’s not a requirement for you to join or get the full benefits of the 7 Day Deep Dive.
You'll have full, lifetime access to all the recordings, worksheets and all other course materials and you can access it anytime. However, if you request a refund, your access will be revoked once the refund has been issued.
You can email us at support@treefranklyn.com or call +1-855-313-TREE
"What in the name of holy holiness!?! Did you seriously make me do that? I have been in therapy practically my whole life and have gone to a lot of counselors, coaches and energy healers and they have all told me to do many things but NO ONE has ever made me do what you did on this 2nd day - after only 2 days of knowing you. HA! You sure don't waste any time, Tree. I had my biggest breakthrough ever today. And I mean EVER, in my life. I'm so grateful for this program, I don't know how you're going to top that in the next 5 days!"
~ John K. (Canada)